i cant personally see what difference and opt in board would make and as ar as i can see most of us are still here , other than those who ended up deleteing through being upset by something posted on chit chat and im guessing that for them to go they didnt need the support for their p or pa anymore else they wouldnt of gone.
Yes i will say that things have changed since i joined up , the chat room used to be full all the time for a start but we are still all about and maybe now have better things to do , people change things happen that change their lives , this is just one tiny part of peoples days where we can get advice find out how the people we have come to know as friends are , maybe arrange to meet up with them , and yes share a few jokes and bits of news asks for opinions too about things, but no matter where you put posts opt in or not there will be times when people just wont agree or do upset others by something they may say and thats when people go adding another board would surely just double the chances of that happening , we wont all agree all of the time and we cant all agree all of the time its human nature