Good question Jotee

Had you asked me this question some 20 years ago I would have rammed it straight back down your throat

Looking back it robbed me of so much of my life and there is no way I could have understood where a question like this was coming from.
20 years on and my whole outlook has changed. Old age, an acceptance that P is a life sentence, maybe I just dont care anymore or what I looked for in life throughout my 20's and 30's is a million miles from what I look for now. Perhaps the bugg3r has finally beat me and this is my way of giving in?
But I do now sit back and look for the positives instead of the negatives and yes, I have found some

The obvious being PHO

And from being a member of PHO led me to becoming involved with the Dead Sea trips which have been going on for over 5 years now. Having helped so many people make that trip has given me huge amounts of satisfaction.
So yes Jo, I can safely say I have found a positive to come out of having P
