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skreid

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History A la Stu
« on: September 23, 2002, 08:35:35 PM »
I've been reading through this board for a while now and thought it was probably about time that I put in my 2 cents worth and mumbled a bit for your amusement :).

My P broke out when I was 6, no reason at all can be laid to blame, the docs say it was stress but come on at 6 I don't think I could spell stress let alone know what it meant.  Any way, since that day I have never been clear, I'll be 28 next month so I guess you can say that I'm pretty much used to having P.

In fact to be perfectly honest I can't actually remember not having it. I suffer basically everywhere. Scalp, face, ears, chest, back, arms, legs, nails and all the places in between.

Childhood and in particular High school was pretty bad, but kids can be cruel.. life is pretty good now.

Right now my doctor would describe it as extensive, I describe it as pretty dam good. I've seen extensive, I've had it bad. When I was 8 you couldn't touch me anywhere above the waist with out touching my plaques.

I'm from a large family, on the P line there are approximately 27 people. Of them 2 of us show P, and the other one died a couple of years ago. I think that used to hurt me, that no one else had it, why me etc... but I'm over that now :)

Suffering with P from such a young age sounds horrible, but I think I'm at an advantage, everyday I read stories of people who are embarressed about their skin, I'm not saying thats wrong, but I don't give a monkey's what other people think. If someone has a problem with my P then its THEIR problem, not mine. I'm confortable with the way I am, I ware what I want and do what I like. I sunbath at the beach, I go swimming, whatever. I guess I'm just used to it or something.. Not that I wouldn't like to be clear of it. I know people who don't leave the house for weeks when their P shows up.. Thats just not me.

There is only a couple of situations that have really annoyed me and got me upset about P in my life. The worst one to date has been being refused the job I dreamed about because I had p. The RAF refused to employ me because of it. Thats in the past and was 10 years ago but it still gets my goat.

The situation may be about to repeat itself as I wait for the results of my medical for entry in to the fire service. I know that there are people in the fire service who suffer from P but they all got it after they joined. Apparently that makes a difference (?????) We shall see what happens over the next few weeks.

Treatment wise, I basically gave up on any treatment about 5 years ago. Nothing worked for me, I've tried pretty much all there was at the time. OK some sort of worked, but only for a limited time and extent and when treatment stops it always came back worse than it was before starting. Even the UVA and UVB failed to clear it completly.

What works? Well for me there are 3 things:

1 - Get out in the Sun as much as possible.

2 - Moisturise every day with a regular moisturer.

3 - Be happy in who, where and what I am.


The most important one?. number 3.. I find if I'm happy then my skin doesn't flake so much. weird, but hey, it works for me.


Anyway, I suppose I'll stop now. And let someone else write....

Cheers

Stu.

Dani

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Re: History A la Stu
« Reply #1 on: September 24, 2002, 09:59:13 AM »
That's such a cool attitude. I love it 8) I plan to join the police force next year and iv heard that they too can be a bit fnny about hiring those with P. I can but try!!

D

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Re: History A la Stu
« Reply #2 on: September 24, 2002, 01:01:47 PM »
really good to read your history Stu - and like Dani - love your attitude.
keep it up.

thanks
Guy ;)
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Alison

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Re: History A la Stu
« Reply #3 on: September 24, 2002, 09:15:58 PM »
wow what a gr8 attitude towards life you have :D.
the forces really should revaluate(or however u spell it :-/) their policies ...........the forces need more people like u.

good luck with the fire brigade :)

nick

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Re: History A la Stu
« Reply #4 on: September 25, 2002, 07:37:06 PM »
well mate i'll give you 10 out of 10 for you attitude and i know what the armed forces are like as i got refused entry to the army because of p.thank god attitudes are changing good luck with the fire brigade :)

skreid

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Re: History A la Stu
« Reply #5 on: September 25, 2002, 09:41:43 PM »
Wow!.. Thanks for all your kind words guys..

I think my attitude comes from being fed up with P controling my life. Stopping me from doing things.. I don't let it any more

If I want to wear something or do something I do it..
And I have really, really cool friends  ;D

Dani

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Re: History A la Stu
« Reply #6 on: September 27, 2002, 04:48:49 PM »
and now, after joining the forum, you've got even more really cool friends.

D
x

skreid

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Re: History A la Stu
« Reply #7 on: October 04, 2002, 08:30:34 PM »

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and now, after joining the forum, you've got even more really cool friends.




That is certainly true.. <BIG HUGS TO EVERYONE>

Stu.

tbrown

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Re: History A la Stu
« Reply #8 on: October 10, 2002, 06:29:57 PM »
Stu! Man, I gotta tell you.....you are now my personal hero or muse or well, something very important!!

My whole life I have been like "tonya..it doesnt matter..forget about it....just do what you want!" but.....then i hide it and try to pretend its not there.

I wanna be like Stu!!  Wonderful!!! Just Great!! You should be one of those inspirational speakers or something!

Keep being strong man!!! Love it!!!!

kisses :-*

Tonya

skreid

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Re: History A la Stu
« Reply #9 on: October 10, 2002, 06:36:26 PM »

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Stu! Man, I gotta tell you.....you are now my personal hero or muse or well, something very important!!

My whole life I have been like "tonya..it doesnt matter..forget about it....just do what you want!" but.....then i hide it and try to pretend its not there.

I wanna be like Stu!!  Wonderful!!! Just Great!! You should be one of those inspirational speakers or something!

Keep being strong man!!! Love it!!!!




Awwww thanks Tonya..

Don't get me wrong I still get down about life sometimes, just not about my P..  (not often at least).

I don't know about being a hero, but I try to keep happy about things and accept the things that I can't do anything about..

Lifes too dam short..

Keep smiling.. and there are always people here to listen when you can't smile..

take care

Stu.