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Re: Life revolve around P? (in proper room now!)
« Reply #10 on: January 22, 2004, 02:46:18 PM »
I know how you feel, i've just started a new job, I've met a lovely guy and we've been out a few times. he put his hand on the back of my neck the other night to give me a kiss goodnight and i shot about 20 feet in the air! needless to say it ruined the moment and i got all flustered etc. I havent spoke to him since! I often wonder if i would have turned out a different kind of person if I hadnt had psoriasis. Would I be less shy and more confident? But I also think I probably am a better person. Because having psoriasis makes me look at people for who they are inside.

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Re: Life revolve around P? (in proper room now!)
« Reply #11 on: January 22, 2004, 03:11:01 PM »
Psoriasis has made me have a kind of split personality, because I am really outgoing, lively and will talk to anyone, but nobody really knows me because I won't let them into my life because of my fear of them knowing about my P  :-/
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Re: Life revolve around P? (in proper room now!)
« Reply #12 on: January 22, 2004, 04:11:37 PM »
 Its human nature to protect yourself from hurt. I know what you mean I can be weird with people too, but from past experiences none of my friends or boyfriends have ever had a problem with my skin. I may have had a few ignorant comments or even down right nasty ones! Although I can forgive ignorance I wont forgive nastiness. Its human nature to want to protect yourself from hurt and rejection, which is probably why you don't let people get too close. you just need to start trusting people thats all. You may take a few bumps and scrapes on the way, but the majority will be fine.

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Re: Life revolve around P? (in proper room now!)
« Reply #13 on: January 22, 2004, 07:36:31 PM »
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I can cetainly relate to the covering up stuff.  And its odd isn't it that I am really concerned about people I know seeing the p and yet when I'm on holiday and on a beach with strangers I'm much more relaxed about it.


I'm the other way around - trust me to be contrary!

Within my family and friends and even work colleagues/team mates etc I am really relaxed about my hands.  I get PP for those who don't know me.

That is apart from my brother who's made some pretty hurtful comments so I am a bit more self concsious around him.  He doesn't intend to be horrid but he's about as tactful as a breeze block!

With people I don't know very well, or at all I am very very uneasy.  I hate the way people stare and shopkeepers don't like putting money into my hands or even accepting money from me.

When I'm getting to know new people if they ask then I tell them.  Once I've told them I forget about it and seems like that works coz they seem to forget about it too.

When it's really bad I still worry about my friends and family not wanting me to touch them or to eat food I have prepared.  However,  that's my own demon as they have told me many times that they're not bothered by it.

The flake breaks are great tho - it's really liberating to be around people who KNOW how you feel and they won't tell you to stop scratching or picking or whatever!

Check out Chit Chat for the next ones in Birmingham and London and try to make it if you've not been before.

They're very debauched!
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