But see my point is P or not everyone has days when they feel like c**p and would not want to be initimate with their partners anyway, just obviously if you have a partner and your P is active and you dont feel attractive that is the time when the cuddles and watching DVD's and communicating and spending quality time comes in handy and when you do feel better, you can make up for lost time, P or not even I have days when I dont feel too great, normally when I have PMT and want to kill someone (keep sharp objects away please)
And I know People without P who have no partners at all because of other reasons, lack of confidence, ginger hair (only joking!!!Honest!) Overweight and so on, and they use this as an excuse, lots of people even if they like you are too shy to ask you out so it is for all of us to get out there and help things along, after all what is the worst that can happen? They run fleeing for the hills? i doubt that, they say 'No; and it doesnt mean no because of P, it could mean NO because they just dont fancy ya!
Work on loving yourself P and warts and all and trust me, everyone is much easier!
Heidi xxx
(Has no problems making the first move)
