I kind of like Spotted_Owl's 'it might take longer to show any effects' or 'effects are small' theory.
I am reading Epigenetics by Nessa Creasy at the moment (Charlotte_S is too, I think she said on another thread, anyone else read it?). In the book the author explains that trying to alter biochemical processes at the end of a long sequence of reactions (as with P - basically we don't know we have it until the evidence shows on the skin, which is the end of the line) is like trying to push a ball up a hill, when the ball is inclined to roll downwards - it can be done, but it's not easy.
This particular book is about the generalities of epigenetics, not P. But there is an interesting section in Chapter 4 about something called histone modification. I won't bore everyone with the details of this here (as I'm not sure I would get it right even if I did) but when I read this section of the book I thought 'gosh that sounds a lot like P' because these modifications can basically get switched on and off by environmental factors including those that occur as a response to diet.
In one analysis what we are all trying to do on this board is identify the environmental factors that switch off our problem gene or - more likely?- switch on another gene that masks its effects, via a biochemical process called DNA methylation.
What is DNA methylation? Well, my brain is hurting a bit, but it seems to be a process by which DNA gets washed with a kind of regulatory molecule, which stops it going wrong. Basically! Can anyone put it better than this in simple language - I'm sure they can.
Where does eating dairy, as in the thread title, fit into all of this - dunno!