Good question.
I used to be a seeker after enlightenment which made me explore different faiths and 100's of meditation tecniques until one day it all fell into place and I stopped searching and saw that the present moment is perfect,not in the sense of no pain or no concerns but just that here now is a restfull place to lay my head for ever.
Yes it has made me stronger but also made me more aware of the sorrow and pain as well as the joys of living.
I realize that reality is very simple and all one has to do is be still and observe the movement of Life,I used to want to know the answers to everything,why was I born ,why must loved ones die, and then instead of trying to figure it all out I just surrendered myself to the process of living and now, something other, than that I ,thats wants to fullfill itself has taken over the reigns of my Life and it's so peacefull now,just accepting what gifts are given,be they relatively good or bad it doesn't REALLY matter,and Life then becomes a play of cause and effects endlessly back and forth . hmmm sorry if I went on a bit.