Update:
Well I went to the doc's yesterday and have been signed off work for another 4 weeks. They wanted to do 8 weeks, but I said that felt waaaaaaaay too long!
My husband gave me a stinking cold for valentine's day (I'd have preferred some chocs!) so I was pretty crappy when I went to the appt. It also meant that I wasn't able to have my last Humira injection, so I've only had 1 out of the 3 I should have had recently due to different bugs. The doc wants me to have had a few before I get back to work and I have to say I agree, even though I feel guilty for being off.
With the cold weather recently and feeling a bit off my PA has been worse - my sleep has been crappy as well, so I'm feeling shattered.
I'm not feeling quite so bad about being off as I was before, but I do struggle with 'relaxing'. I'm normally only off work when I have something planned, so this is very odd. I've done lots of reading (my Kindle has been a life-saver as I struggle to turn the pages on books) and watched lots of films on Sky. I've also started swimming again and I'm starting a beginners' yoga course on Monday (the teacher has lots of experience with people with different types of arthritis, so should be good).
I'm also getting my head around having PA and am feeling much better about it - I don't feel quite so sorry for myself!
Lise